Divorced women remain in waiting for three periods, and it is not lawful for them to conceal what Allah has created in their wombs if they believe in Allah and the Last Day. And their husbands have more right to take them back in this [period] if they want reconciliation. And due to the wives is similar to what is expected of them, according to what is reasonable. But the men have a degree over them [in responsibility and authority]. And Allah is Exalted in Might and Wise. - Quran:Al-Baqarah 2:228 (islam)
-Is it the definition of the waiting period?
- Is it because of a possible pregnancy?
- After the waiting period what will happen to the offspring?
- Can the mother keep the child (Abu Dawud 2276)?
- Is that so, men are greater?
- Is it always the case?
- Is there equality of opportunity in Islam?
O You who have believed, when you marry believing women and then divorce them before you have touched them, then there is not for you any waiting period to count concerning them. So provide for them and give them a gracious release. - Quran:Al-Ahzab 33:49 (islam)
-Is this one combo with the 65:4?
- Does it mean in Islam you can have sex with your wife at whatever age you see fit?
- How can a prebuscent girl consent (Bukhari 5136)?
- Does her Marham can consent for her?
And those who no longer expect menstruation among your women - if you doubt, then their period is three months, and [also for] those who have not menstruated. And for those who are pregnant, their term is until they give birth. And whoever fears Allah - He will make for him of his matter ease. - Quran:At-Talaq 65:4 (islam)
-Does the tafsir says "Ibn Abbas, Jalalayn, Ibn Kathir, Maududi, Wahidi (https://quranx.com/Tafsirs/65.4) and Saadi (https://surahquran.com/aya-tafsir-4-65.html#saadi) - What about the waiting period of those who do not have menstruation because they are too young?
-", Mohamed (pbuh) said along with those who have it not because of young age, their waiting period is three months"?
- If you can divorce a prepubescent girl, does it mean you can marry one?
- What is the ida (2:228)?
- Why wait 3 months for the Ida if you didn’t have sex with her (33:49)?
- What does the tafsir said about that is it really prepubescent or just in case of amenorrhea?
- What is more just a human Law (222:22 in France) or Allah's Law?
- What is the position of the a current
scholar?
- What is the difference between women too young to have menstruation and prepubescent girl?
- Why all the tafsir understand this way and some recent scholars in other way?
Chapter: It is permissible for a father to arrange the marriage of a young virgin
'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported that Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) married her when she was seven years old, and he was taken to his house as a bride when she was nine, and her dolls were with her; and when he (the Holy Prophet) died she was eighteen years old. - Sahih:Muslim:1422c (islam)
-Can she be 18 when he died and 19 when he had sex with her?
- If those hadith are false all Fiqh book, the sunnah and all biographies have to be rewritten, is it even possible?
- Is Allah supposed to be omnipotent, how is it possible for him to have so much mistakes in his religion?
Chapter: A Man Marrying Off His Young Daughter
It was narrated from 'Aishah that the Messenger of Allah married her when she was nine and he died when she was eighteen years old. - Sahih:An Nasai:3258 (islam)
-This hadith are different, they married at 9, not 6, how come a sahih hadith can be different from others?
- Can we trust the methodology behind the compilation of the Sunnah?
Chapter: It is permissible for a father to arrange the marriage of a young virgin
Narrated 'A'isha :
'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported that Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) married her when she was six years old, and he (the Holy Prophet) took her to his house when she was nine, and when he (the Holy Prophet) died she was eighteen years old - Sahih:Muslim:1422d (islam)
-What about the chain or narration, some are weaker than others?
- Does it mean Muslim or Bukhari have weak (Dai'f) hadiths?
- If it's true how can you trust anything?
Chapter: The marrying of a daughter by her father to a ruler
Narrated `Aisha:
that the Prophet (ﷺ) married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old. Hisham said: I have been informed that `Aisha remained with the Prophet (ﷺ) for nine years (i.e. till his death). - Sahih:Al Bukhari:5134 (islam)
-Is it acceptable today for a 53 old man to have sex with a 9 years old girl?
- Is it acceptable in the 7th century?
- We know now that 9 years old can die for having sex so young, for having babies so young, how God seems not to be aware of it?
Chapter: Regarding The Marriage Of The Young
Narrated 'Aishah:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) married me when I was seven years old. The narrator Sulaiman said: or Six years. He had intercourse with me when I was nine years old. - Sahih:Abu Dawud:2121 (islam)
-Was it 9 or 19 years, if it's 19, how come Mohamed died when she was 18?
- How many Sahih Hadith on the age of Aisha is there?
- Is marrying children is the Quran (4:127, 65:4)?
Chapter: Marriage of the Prophet (saws) with ‘Aishah رضي الله عنها
Narrated Hisham's father:
Khadija died three years before the Prophet (ﷺ) departed to Medina. He stayed there for two years or so and then he married `Aisha when she was a girl of six years of age, and he consumed that marriage when she was nine years old. - Sahih:Al Bukhari:3896 (islam)
-Is there a Sahih Hadith who doesn't says Aisha was married at 6 and had sex with a 53 old man at 9?
Chapter: Giving one's young children in marriage
Narrated `Aisha:
that the Prophet (ﷺ) married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old, and then she remained with him for nine years (i.e., till his death). - Sahih:Al Bukhari:5133 (islam)
-What is the age of Aisha when Mohamed died, 18 or 28 years old?
Chapter: Whoever consummated his marriage with a lady of nine years of age
Narrated 'Urwa:
The Prophet (ﷺ) wrote the (marriage contract) with `Aisha while she was six years old and consummated his marriage with her while she was nine years old and she remained with him for nine years (i.e. till his death). - Sahih:Al Bukhari:5158 (islam)
-Is it possible to have sex with children in Islam?
- In the fiqh books (reliance of the travelers for instance), what is the position?
- Is there any madhab against the marriage of prepubescent girl?
Chapter: A Man Marrying Off His Young Daughter
It was narrated from 'Aishah that the Messenger of Allah married her when she was six years old, and consummated the marriage with her when she was nine. - Sahih:An Nasai:3255 (islam)
-A lot of hadith reported 6 and 9, how many are needed to confirm her age?
Chapter: Consummation Of Marriage With A Girl Of Nine
It was narrated that 'Aishah said:
"The Messenger of Allah married me when I was six, and consummated the marriage with me when I was nine, and I used to play with dolls." - Sahih:An Nasai:3378 (islam)
-If some how you are convinced that Mohamed was not a pedophile, are you then a Quranist?
- Is the Quran allows sex with prepubescent girl (Quran 33:49 & 65:4)?
Chapter: Marriage of minor girls arranged by their fathers
It was narrated that:
Abdullah said: “The Prophet married Aishah when she was seven years old, and consummated the marriage with her when she was nine, and he passed away when she was eighteen.” - Sahih:Ibn Majah:1877 (islam)
Chapter: It is permissible for a father to arrange the marriage of a young virgin
'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported:
Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) married me when I was six years old, and I was admitted to his house when I was nine years old. - Sahih:Muslim:1422b (islam)
-How come a simple translation says: "the Prophet (pbuh) married me when I was six years old and he built me when I was nine years old."?
- What Does "Build" mean in the translation?
- Where is the "admission to his house" part?
- Why the translation in English so oriented?
Chapter: The father or the guardian cannot give a virgin or matron in marriage without her consent
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "A matron should not be given in marriage except after consulting her; and a virgin should not be given in marriage except after her permission." The people asked, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! How can we know her permission?" He said, "Her silence (indicates her permission). - Sahih:Al Bukhari:5136 (islam)
-Who is consenting in place of the Virgin?
- Is there a limit for marriage?
- Is there a limit for sex?
Chapter: (Tricks) in marriage
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "A virgin should not be married till she is asked for her consent; and the matron should not be married till she is asked whether she agrees to marry or not." It was asked, "O Allah's Apostle! How will she (the virgin) express her consent?" He said, "By keeping silent." Some people said that if a virgin is not asked for her consent and she is not married, and then a man, by playing a trick presents two false witnesses that he has married her with her consent and the judge confirms his marriage as a true one, and the husband knows that the witnesses were false ones, then there is no harm for him to consummate his marriage with her and the marriage is regarded as valid. - Sahih:Al Bukhari:6968 (islam)
-Is it acceptable today?
- Is Mohamed the best example for today, or ever?
- Was he a pedophile?
Chapter: Seeking permission of a previously-married woman in words, and of a virgin by silence
Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as having said:
A woman without a husband (or divorced or a widow) must not be married until she is consulted, and a virgin must not be married until her permission is sought. They asked the Prophet of Allah (ﷺ): How her (virgin's) consent can be solicited? He (the Holy Prophet) said: That she keeps silence. - Sahih:Muslim:1419a (islam)
-with the hadith who said the father pleasure is like Allah's Pleasure, how a young girl can refuse a marriage?
- Can you marry a baby?
- Why the ruling for sex is not limited in age but only on 'capability'?
- Why no hadith mentions clearly menstruation as a sign of maturity?
- Even so, is it ok to have sex or a baby at te first sign of puberty?
Chapter: Seeking The Girl's Permission
Narrated Abu Hurairah:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: An orphan virgin girl should be consulted about herself; if she says nothing that indicates her permission, but if she refuses, the authority of the guardian cannot be exercised against her will. The full information rest with the tradition narrated by Yazid. Abu Dawud said: This tradition has also been transmitted in a similar way by Abu Khalid Sulaiman b. Hayyan and Mu'adh b. Mu'adh on the authority of Muhammad b. 'Amr. - Sahih:Abu Dawud:2093 (islam)
-Is it like the hadiths about the silence of virgins (Bukhari 6968)?
Chapter: What Has Been Related About Coercing A Female Orphan To Marry
Abu Hurairah narrated that:
The Messenger of Allah said: "An orphan is to be consulted about herself, then if she is silent that is her permission, and if she refuses, then do not authorize it (the marriage) for her" (meaning: when she attains the age of puberty and refuses it.) - Hasan:Tirmidhi:1109 (islam)
Chapter: Regarding Widowed And Divorced Women
Narrated Abdullah ibn Abbas:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: A guardian has no concern with a woman previously married and has no husband, and an orphan girl (i.e. virgin) must be consulted, her silence being her acceptance. - Sahih:Abu Dawud:2100 (islam)
-What is an orphan?
- Are you considered an orphan if you have menstruation?
Chapter: Asking A Virgin For Permission With Regard To Marriage
It was narrated from Ibn 'Abbas that the Prophet said:
"A previously married woman has more right to decide about herself (with regard to marriage) than her guardian, and an orphan girl should be consulted, and her permission is her silence." - Sahih:An Nasai:3261 (islam)
-Are you still an orphan if you are married?
Chapter: Asking A Virgin For Permission With Regard To Marriage
It was narrated from Ibn 'Abbas that the Messenger of Allah said:
"A previously married woman has more right (to decide) about herself (with regard to marriage) than her guardian, and an orphan girl should be consulted with regard to marriage, and her permission is her silence." - Sahih:An Nasai:3262 (islam)
-Is a child allowed to say no to a marriage?
Chapter: Asking A Virgin For Permission With Regard To Marriage
It was narrated from Ibn 'Abbas that the Prophet said:
"The guardian has no right (to force) the previously married woman (into a marriage). And an orphan girl should be consulted, and her silence is her approval." - Sahih:An Nasai:3263 (islam)
-Can you have an orphan boy in your house?
- What will happen if he reaches puberty, will it be Halal, authorized, for him to see the daughters, your wives without a veil?
- Or will it be obligatory for the women to wear a veil inside de house?
- Can someone in the house suckle the young orphan to made him a mahram (Muslim 1453a)?
- Is it valid today to let an adult or a young boy to drink a bit of women breast milk to allow him to live in a house?
Chapter: The purchase of animals and donkeys
Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah:
I was with the Prophet (ﷺ) in a Ghazwa (Military Expedition) and my camel was slow and exhausted. The Prophet came up to me and said, "O Jabir." I replied, "Yes?" He said, "What is the matter with you?" I replied, "My camel is slow and tired, so I am left behind." So, he got down and poked the camel with his stick and then ordered me to ride. I rode the camel and it became so fast that I had to hold it from going ahead of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) . He then asked me, have you got married?" I replied in the affirmative. He asked, "A virgin or a matron?" I replied, "I married a matron." The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Why have you not married a virgin, so that you may play with her and she may play with you?" Jabir replied, "I have sisters (young in age) so I liked to marry a matron who could collect them all and comb their hair and look after them." The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "You will reach, so when you have arrived (at home), I advise you to associate with your wife (that you may have an intelligent son)." Then he asked me, "Would you like to sell your camel?" I replied in the affirmative and the Prophet (ﷺ) purchased it for one Uqiya of gold. Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) reached before me and I reached in the morning, and when I went to the mosque, I found him at the door of the mosque. He asked me, "Have you arrived just now?" I replied in the affirmative. He said, "Leave your camel and come into (the mosque) and pray two rak`at." I entered and offered the prayer. He told Bilal to weigh and give me one Uqiya of gold. So Bilal weighed for me fairly and I went away. The Prophet (ﷺ) sent for me and I thought that he would return to me my camel which I hated more than anything else. But the Prophet (ﷺ) said to me, "Take your camel as well as its price." - Sahih:Al Bukhari:2097 (islam)
Chapter: It is recommended to marry virgins
Jabir b. 'Abdullah (Allah be pleased with them) reported:
I married a woman, whereupon Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to me: Have you married? I said: Yes. He said: Is it a virgin or a previously married one (widow or divorced)? I said: With a previously married one, whereupon he said: Where had you been (away) from the amusements of virgins? Shu'ba said: I made a mention of it to 'Amr b. Dinar and he said: I too heard from Jabir making mention of that (that Allah's Apostle) said: Why didn't you marry a girl, so that you might sport with her and she might sport with you? - Sahih:Muslim:715e (islam)
-Is it prepubescent virgin or mature virgin?
Chapter: Regarding A Virgin Who Was Married Off By Her Father Without He Consent
Narrated Abdullah ibn Abbas:
A virgin came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and mentioned that her father had married her against her will, so the Prophet (ﷺ) allowed her to exercise her choice. - Sahih:Abu Dawud:2096 (islam)
-Is it a young prepubescent girl or a virgin women?
Chapter: Father Marrying Off A Virgin When She Is Unwilling
It was narrated from 'Aishah:
"A girl came to her and said: 'My father married me to his brother's son so that he might raise his own status thereby, and I was unwilling.' She said: 'Sit here until the Prophet comes.' Then the Messenger of Allah came, and I told him (what she had said). He sent word to her father, calling him, and he left the matter up to her. She said: 'O Messenger of Allah, I accept what my father did, but I wanted to know whether women have any say in the matter.'" - Sahih:An Nasai:3269 (islam)
Chapter: Wrapping oneself up
It is related that Abu Hurayra said, "I never sae al-Hasan without my eyes overflowing with tears. That is because the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, went out one day and he found me in the mosque. He took my hand and I went along with him. He did not speak to me until we reached the market of Banu Qaynuqa'. He walked around it and looked. Then he left and I left with him until we reached the mosque. He sat down and wrapped himself in his garment. Then he said, 'Where is the little one? Call the little one to me.' Hasan came running and jumped into his lap. Then he put his hand in his beard. Then the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, opened his mouth and put his mouth in his mouth. Then he said, O Allah, I love him, so love him and the one who loves him!'" - Hasan:Adab:1183 (islam)
But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry. - Bible:NT:1 Corinthians 7:36 (bible)
-What is a virgin in Hebrew or Greek?
- Is it just marriage or is it sex?
- Is there a age limit for sex or marriage?
[10]And they burnt all their cities wherein they dwelt, and all their goodly castles, with fire.
[11]And they took all the spoil, and all the prey, both of men and of beasts.
[12]And they brought the captives, and the prey, and the spoil, unto Moses, and Eleazar the priest, and unto the congregation of the children of Israel, unto the camp at the plains of Moab, which are by Jordan near Jericho.
[13]And Moses, and Eleazar the priest, and all the princes of the congregation, went forth to meet them without the camp.
[14]And Moses was wroth with the officers of the host, with the captains over thousands, and captains over hundreds, which came from the battle.
[15]And Moses said unto them, Have ye saved all the women alive?
[16]Behold, these caused the children of Israel, through the counsel of Balaam, to commit trespass against the LORD in the matter of Peor, and there was a plague among the congregation of the LORD.
[17]Now therefore kill every male among the little ones, and kill every woman that hath known man by lying with him.
[18]But all the women children, that have not known a man by lying with him, keep alive for yourselves. - Bible:OT:Numbers 31:10:18 (bible torah)
-Does God means kill every baby boy?
- Does it means kill very women or mother?
- Does it means kill every girl who had sex?
- How can you know if a woman or a girl had sex, do you need to check their vagina?
- Have you check the translation in Hebrew when God said 'save for yourselves'?
- Why kill girl who had sex with a man, aren’t they supposed to be victims?
- Why God asked to kill young girls because a man had sex with her?
Chapter: Consummation of marriage during the daytime without a marriage procession or lighting of fires
Narrated Aisha:
When the Prophet (ﷺ) married me, my mother came to me and made me enter the house (of the Prophet) and nothing surprised me but the coming of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) to me in the forenoon. - Sahih:Al Bukhari:5160 (islam)
Chapter: About swings
Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) married me when I was seven or six. When we came to Medina, some women came. according to Bishr's version: Umm Ruman came to me when I was swinging. They took me, made me prepared and decorated me. I was then brought to the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ), and he took up cohabitation with me when I was nine. She halted me at the door, and I burst into laughter. Abu Dawud said: That is to say: I menstruated, and I was brought in a house, and there were some women of the Ansari in it. They said: With good luck and blessing. The tradition of one of them has been included in the other. - Sahih:Abu Dawud:4933 (islam)
-Is it about tianafasat and nafasat (https://www.almaany.com/ar/dict/ar-ar/تنفست/)?
- How come 'menstruated' translate into 'breathed' when you translate from Arab to English?
- How come some translation can be 'at the time as I remember'?
- Is sign of maturity same as sign of menstruation?
- Is it contradictory with the Quran (65:4)?
- Even if Mohamed waited for the menses is it OK, is it a Good thing, is it a Good Thing?
- Is it Halal to marry and have sex with a prepubescent 7 years old?
- Is it Halal with 3 years old?
- Does Aisha say she was prepubescent (Bukhari 5236)?
Chapter: Hyenas
It was narrated that Ibn Abu ‘Ammar, who is ‘Abdur-Rahman, said:
“I asked Jabir bin ‘Abdullah about hyenas: ‘Are they game (that can be hunted)?’ He said: ‘Yes.’ I said: ‘Can I eat them?’ He said: ‘Yes.’ I said: ‘Is this something that you heard from the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)?’ He said: ‘Yes.’” - Sahih:Ibn Majah:3236 (islam)
Chapter: Consummating The Marriage In Shawwal
It was narrated that 'Aishah said:
"The Prophet married me in Shawwal, and he consummated the marriage with me in Shawwal, and which of his wives find more favor with him than me?" - Sahih:An Nasai:3377 (islam)
Yaḥyā ibn Muḥammad and Sālim ibn ‘Abdullāh would marry off their virgin daughters without consulting them. Mālik said, “that is what is done among us about the marriage of virgins.” Mālik said, “A virgin has no right to her property until she enters her house and her state (competence, maturity, etc.) is known for sure.” - Fiqh:Muwatta:28.2-6 (islam)
The 'idda for a free woman who is widowed is four months and ten nights, whether a child or adult, consummated or not, Muslim or kitabi. For a slave girl who is partially free it is two months and five days, except in the case of an older woman whose period is delayed. Then she waits until the doubt is removed. As for the one who does not menstruate because of youth or old age and her marriage was consummated, she cannot marry until three months after the death of the husband. [This is a woman who is not pregnant, whether with false menstruation or not. It is the same whatever the age of the husband. Removal of doubt is by menstruation or the completion of nine months.] - Fiqh:Rissala:33.2 (islam)
Istibra' is observed in the case of a slavegirl who changes ownership. It is one menstruation. Ownership changes by selling, giving away, capture, or any other way. If the woman menstruates after being in the possession of the new master before he has bought her, then she does not have to observe an istibra' if she has not gone out. The istibra' for a child when she is sold is three months as it is for a woman who no longer menstruates. There is no istibra' for a woman who has never had intercourse. If someone buys a pregnant woman from another person or gains possession of her without a sale, should not go near her or enjoy her in any manner until she gives birth. [Omitted explanation) - Fiqh:Rissala:33.5 (islam)
If the wife has not yet begun to have menstrual periods or has ceased to have them, he can divorce her at any time he wants and the same applies to a woman who is pregnant. [Various ages are given for the menopause. About "any time," at-Tata'i said, "It can even be after intercourse with her because such a divorce is in months which would not entail lengthening the 'idda. It is the same with the wife with whom the marriage has not been consummated, even during the time of her menstruation, since the reason for the prohibition is to avoid prolonging 'idda.] - Fiqh:Rissala:32.14e (islam)
A father can arrange the marriage of his virgin daughter without her permission even if she is beyond the age of puberty. It is up to him whether he consults her or not. [To whomever he wants for the dowry he wishes, even for less than a suitable dowry. He can give her choice, and it states in al-Jawahir and elsewhere that it is recommended that he ask her permission.] - Fiqh:Rissala:32.2a (islam)
A waltmg period is obligatory for awoman divorced after intercourse, whether thehusband and wife are prepubescent, have reachedpuberty, or one has and the other has not.Intercourse means copulation (def: n7. 7). Ifthe husband was alone with her but did not copulatewith her, and then divorced her, there is nowaiting period. - Fiqh:Umdat:n9.2 (islam)
The waiting period for a woman who doesnot menstruate, whether prepubescent or postmenopausal,is three months.If a woman normally menstruates, but herperiods have stopped for some reaSOn such asbreastfeeding or the like, or without apparentreason, then she must wait until the age ofmenopause, after which her waiting period isthree months. (N: In the Maliki school, such awoman must wait nine months, and if neitherpregnancy nor menses appear, she is consideredto be as if menopausal, and her waiting period isthree more months, making a total of one entireyear in which there is no menstrual flow.) - Fiqh:Umdat:n9.9 (islam)